I'm probably just a bit of a nostalgia twat when i say this, but I have to agree with you. Animated films don't even bother trying to have a deeper meaning or anything dark period. Sure, dark and gritty is not a requirement for an animated film to be good. But it just seems more daring, taking a risk that'll pay off in the end.
I myself grew up watching Don Bluth films like All Dogs go to heaven, The Secret of NIMH, The land Before Time etc. I never really got into pixar 3d stuff. I found most of it to be just....kind of cold and only caring about including pop culture references and trying to get as many famous people to voice characters as they can.
But The incredibles was probably Pixars only decent film. I might be coming off as ignorant or just old fashioned to it all. but that's just the way I see it all.
Egoraptor
Well, I always thought "lead by example, not by force" was a great way of putting it.
I'm under the impression that it's up to us to create the stuff that's in our soul. Mainstream will always be mainstream, but if we want to try to change it the only way we can do that is just by doing it.
NegativeONE
An optimistic way of putting it, but unfortunately mainstream is largely what kids are gonna see as they grow up. As parents become more and more overprotective, they'll shelter their kids from the freedom of the internet, and guys like us won't have the meager influence we have even now.